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Relationships should be based on commitment, sound communication, romance, intimacy and  honesty. 

It should come from the depth of your heart to love unconditionally, communicate even when the sparks are off and fight when you feel threatened to show how much you value your partner.

Sadly, love is mostly one sided, more like your partner is not putting the same level of energy as you, this can be really painful.

According to research, scientists made us understand that an heart break is equivalent to physical pain.

The way you cringe and groan to a sore affecting any part of your body is the exact way an heart break hits you, sending different jolts into your body.

To be honest with you i know how that feels, not getting enough sleep at night because you are suspecting your partner is cheating or getting stood up for hours when you know deeply he or she is avoiding you.

Getting pregnant and not knowing how to tell him because he never talks about the future with you, watching her entertain…
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I must admit, finding a partner or accepting a proposal can be tiring and frustrating at times.

You find various people with personalities that do not match up to what you are looking for, while some are actually a little alike with you but there is just something about them that puts you off.

At a point, I got tired of being in a relationship because it did not bring up good memories, there was always distance, temperament issues, trust issues, conversations that shouldn't be taken lightly. No communication, no intimacy.

Sometimes, I wonder how some people are and how they think because when u start dating, let's say at the appropriate age that you can distinguish from  left to right, you will meet different people and have to choose the one that suites your heart.

That is not the issue at all, there would be men or women wanting to be in relationships with you, that is very easy, the problem there is sadly, everyone has a motive for doing one thing or the other.

If I wear a…